In the world of horoscopes, Scorpios have a bit of a reputation when it comes to dating. They like to develop intimacy quickly, but then may struggle with trusting whomever they’re seeing. Scorpios are often misunderstood, because they are pretty private and keep their true emotions close to their chest. However, relationships are a huge point of growth and transformation for them, and they may leave every romantic encounter changed as a person. Scorpios also immediately know if they want to get to know someone further, so they don’t mess around in their dating life. They value loyalty and commitment, and they stick to their word. Below, find out more about what it’s really like to date a Scorpio.
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Who are Scorpios most compatible with?
Scorpio tends to get along well with Leo. They are both fiercely loyal to whomever they’re dating, and once they’ve decided they like someone they are all in. Leos need a lot of praise and attention in a relationship, and Scorpios will only have eyes for them. They may both bring their fair share of drama as well, but it is the ups and downs that help them to become a stronger couple.
Pisces is another good match for Scorpio. These two signs are both very intuitive and emotionally sensitive. They may immediately sense what the other is feeling, without having to say anything. Pisces is also very giving and compassionate, and may help Scorpios to express their softer side. When Scorpio is in a bad mood or doesn’t want to say what’s bothering them, Pisces will be there to just listen and empathise with them.
Finally, Taurus is often a sign to which Scorpio is attracted. Taurus offers stability and commitment, which Scorpio appreciates. In addition, Taurus is usually super calm and patient, and they won’t react in the heat of the moment if Scorpios are upset.
Why can Scorpios be so hard to date?
When a Scorpio likes a person, they may get fixated on making it work and having the relationship go exactly how they want it to. They might also struggle with trusting their partners, and as a result they can get jealous easily. Scorpios are very private, so they may believe that the person they’re dating is likewise keeping things from them. The person they’re dating will never know that Scorpios feel this way though, because they usually keep their feelings buried. It takes a Scorpio a while to trust people and reveal their vulnerabilities.
What’s it like dating a Scorpio?
Scorpios crave intensity in their relationships, and they usually know right away if they’re interested or not. They don’t date just for the sake of dating, and they would rather develop deeper intimacy with someone. They may enjoy having lengthy conversations about profound topics, and they are probably curious about difficulties from their partner’s past or any struggles that person might be currently going through. Scorpios love cutting to the chase and figuring out why someone is the way they are, so you won’t experience much surface-level small talk when you’re with them.
What signs should Scorpios avoid?
Scorpio and Gemini are two signs that might clash. Geminis thrive on being around other people, and they may often have social events that they want to attend. Meanwhile, Scorpio is a lot more introverted and wants their partner all to themselves. These two have very different ways of spending their free time, and they may struggle in making their schedules align.
Libra is another sign that Scorpio could have trouble with. Libra likes to date around and flirt with a lot of people before they settle down with one person, while Scorpio doesn’t like to see multiple people at once. Scorpio may get easily jealous of Libra talking to other people, and they won’t like not knowing where they stand. If they can get past the initial part of dating, the relationship may then be a lot easier.
What are Scorpios like when they are in love?
Scorpios fall fast when they’re interested in someone, even if they may not let on just how obsessed they are. The person they’re dating is likely always at the top of their Instagram searches, and Scorpio may go out of their way to conveniently show up at events where their love interest may be. Though they’re intense from the start, once they’ve fallen in love and the relationship is more solidified, Scorpio will make more of an effort to open up instead of keeping all of their feelings hidden inside.